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1. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a total of 3 years now, but we always get into argument. Whenever we had big argument, he would break up with me. Then few weeks later we would get together again as if nothing ever happen, and then it will repeat again. I know I love him, so as he, but I’m tired of this on-off-on again relationship. Please advice.
Laura (Irvine, CA)
What a ‘happening’ relationship you have with your boyfriend. This may sound harsh, but I just have to say it. It seems both of you are not really into this relationship anymore. I think deep down you do know about this too, otherwise you won’t write this to me.
In every healthy and wise relationship, every argument should never lead into breaking-up solution, as that’s going to leave scar in both of you, no matter how. Slowly that scars will build up and eventually it will become unavoidable that you have to ‘take out’ that scars from yourself.
Whenever a couple is in an argument, they should discuss it with open mind. When you are in argument and full with emotion, try to leave the room for awhile to calm yourself first. Never try to have argument when you are very emotional, because you will end up saying things that you will regret later on.
If both of you truly treasure your relationship, never say the word “Break Up” anymore whenever both of you have argument; try to work it out and make it work.
However, if you are always get into argument with your boyfriend on every little thing; it is time for you think if that’s a relationship you want to have forever. I don’t know what kind of things that make you both argue, it could be major things (like cheating with another woman) but it could also be nothing at all (like being late for appointment, forget anniversary).
Don’t you feel tired to always have to argue on everything? Don’t you wish to have relationship that’s wiser, understanding, communicative and loving? Have a think about it. Good luck, dear.
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